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    Posted by The Eagle on October 28, 2025 at 9:08 am

    I just want to engage anyone here about money and marriage.

    Anyone with some thoughts on sharing bills 50-5 as husband and wife? I need some knowledge on this matter abeg.

    Thank you.

    • This discussion was modified 5 months, 2 weeks ago by  The Eagle.
    TALC replied 5 months, 1 week ago 5 Members · 9 Replies
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  • TALC

    Moderator
    October 28, 2025 at 9:10 am

    We cannot wait to have people engage you in this very hot topic about marriage and money! Spot on! Thanks for asking, Eagle!

  • Adenike

    Member
    October 28, 2025 at 10:06 am

    Personally, i dont think splitting 50-50 is best because there are a whole lot of other factors to be considered. However, I believe doing what works for the family is best, Marriage is too dynamic to be boxed. If families can do 50-50 without tension and with proper understanding that it is going to be all the way that is 50-50 chores, 50-50 child care etc, then go for it!

    • The Eagle

      Moderator
      October 28, 2025 at 1:28 pm

      Thank you Adenike! Truly appreciate your candour. Can’t wait for more replies.

  • Oluwafemi

    Member
    October 29, 2025 at 11:12 am

    This is an interesting post. I don’t believe there should be a fixed formula for sharing expenses in marriage. Spending in marriage shouldn’t be stereotypical. The key is achieving financial alignment; understanding each other’s financial realities and what the marriage requires.

    It’s truly not a one-size-fits-all situation. Once there’s alignment between both partners, financial issues rarely become a source of conflict because each person naturally understands their role and contributes organically toward achieving their shared financial goals.

    • This reply was modified 5 months, 2 weeks ago by  Oluwafemi.
    • The Eagle

      Moderator
      October 29, 2025 at 11:48 am

      @Adebiyi Amazing submission! So much wisdom packed in this perspective just like @NikkiB shared yesterday! Kudos People!

  • Adetokunbo

    Member
    October 29, 2025 at 12:04 pm

    I dnt think it’s about sharing 50 50 In marriage, it’s relative and it’s based on financial capacity of both husband and wife. There are situations that earnings are not even equal so why 50;50 sharing?

    In marriage I believe husbands and wives are one and mutual agreement should be reached in making such decisions.

    • Oluwafemi

      Member
      October 29, 2025 at 12:07 pm

      • TALC

        Moderator
        November 5, 2025 at 9:38 am

        ❤️❤️❤️

    • The Eagle

      Moderator
      October 29, 2025 at 12:10 pm

      See perspective! So practical and true. @Toks sense choke for this comment! Thanks a lot for sharing that perspective.

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